Resources for Grieving Choirs
On October 25th, 2023, tragedy landed at home in Maine with the event of the Lewiston mass shooting. Eighteen of our neighbors were lost, and more injured. On this page is the letter to Maine choir directors from the Maine ACDA Board, and the resources that were shared. If your choir is grieving any kind of tragedy or loss, we hope these resources help your singers find comfort and community as they did for us.
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October 28, 2023
Dear choral friends and family, We all are in the world of music because at one point or another, music saved us. At one point or another, music comforted us, and at one point or another, or perhaps every day, music has brought light into our darkness. During this difficult time of anxiety and questioning, we as directors have the opportunity to help our singers use the unfailing power of music to find community and belonging, to find solace and peace, and to process feelings that are impossible to put into words or may otherwise be locked far below the surface. We know that music is healing, and that singers will desperately be seeking a sense of normalcy and comfort – but also that it can be difficult to jump back into sight-singing exercises or woodshedding notes and rhythms without addressing more directly the shared experience we are having as Mainers in this time. In continuing with our mission to provide support to our director membership, we’d like to offer up some choral-specific resources that you might find helpful in the coming weeks. We will also add these to a page of our website so that any recommendations you send our way can be included. We’re grateful to be part of this choral community with you, and hold you all dear as we move through this together. With love, Your Maine ACDA Board |
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year. My students who participated were immediately moved by the text, and were really able to connect with the music. Because of how much they loved this piece, I programmed it this fall for us to perform at the ACDA Fall Festival. In light of the events of the past few days, I shared a recording of it with our staff, students, and music families, hoping that it could provide hope and light during this dark time. This piece is accessible with some divisi, and a beautiful piano accompaniment. There are also some wonderful recordings available on youtube. Whether or not you end up singing this piece, it would certainly be worth sharing.” From Julia - “I’ve been listening to this song after it popped up one day on Spotify. It’s simple, resonates with the confused youth inside all of us, and seems to speak to this moment in some ways. I reached out to the composer and he responded with a link to the sheet music. The first link didn’t work, but I will add it to our resources when he sends a new one. It is worth a listen.”
From Camille: “My ‘go-to’ piece [from the Justice Choir Songbook] is ‘Love, Love, Love’ by Abbey Betinis. It is so simple and can be put together very quickly with four 4-measure phrases. I have always included audiences around the world on our tours. The feeling of being bathed in love is healing and develops a wonderful sense of community.”
Activities
Quotations
Helpful Reading/Watching
- “Goodness Still” by Michael Hayashida of Auburn, ME
year. My students who participated were immediately moved by the text, and were really able to connect with the music. Because of how much they loved this piece, I programmed it this fall for us to perform at the ACDA Fall Festival. In light of the events of the past few days, I shared a recording of it with our staff, students, and music families, hoping that it could provide hope and light during this dark time. This piece is accessible with some divisi, and a beautiful piano accompaniment. There are also some wonderful recordings available on youtube. Whether or not you end up singing this piece, it would certainly be worth sharing.” From Julia - “I’ve been listening to this song after it popped up one day on Spotify. It’s simple, resonates with the confused youth inside all of us, and seems to speak to this moment in some ways. I reached out to the composer and he responded with a link to the sheet music. The first link didn’t work, but I will add it to our resources when he sends a new one. It is worth a listen.”
- “There Is More Love Somewhere” – traditional
- “Rain Come Down” by Shawn Kirchner
From Camille: “My ‘go-to’ piece [from the Justice Choir Songbook] is ‘Love, Love, Love’ by Abbey Betinis. It is so simple and can be put together very quickly with four 4-measure phrases. I have always included audiences around the world on our tours. The feeling of being bathed in love is healing and develops a wonderful sense of community.”
Activities
- Create a playlist with songs that bring you hope, or peace, or calm, or inspiration.
- Here are some examples from Julia:
- Songs of Hope and Resilience
- Comfort Classical
- Calming Music for Anxiety/Stress/HSP (instrumental playlist by Meditation Station)
- Here are some examples from Julia:
- Set time aside for students/singers to create art, thank you cards, and gestures for first responders and medical/mental health professionals in the area.
- Incorporate mindfulness into your warm-up or throughout your rehearsal.
- Check out Breathe Like a Bear geared toward younger children.
- Check out these Mindfulness Warm-Up Resources from Julia.
Quotations
- “My heart, which is so full to overflowing, has often been solaced and refreshed by music when sick and weary.” ― Martin Luther
- “Music is the language of the spirit. It opens the secret of life bringing peace, abolishing strife.” ― Kahlil Gibran
- “Music was my refuge. I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness.” – Maya Angelou
- “I think music in itself is healing. It's an explosive expression of humanity.” – Billy Joel
- “Music is the balm that heals the forlorn ache of a distant star.” – Don Williams
- “This will be our reply to violence: to make music more intensely, more beautifully, more devotedly than ever before.” - Leonard Bernstein
Helpful Reading/Watching
- Article: Developing a group voice through the grief journey: the Grief Choir
- Article: Group singing in bereavement: effects on mental health, self-efficacy, self-esteem and well-being
- Article: Choir Gives Grievers a Voice and Path for Grief Journeys
- Video: “Rite to Grieve” (2:43)
- Video: “How to sing through grief” from Vocal Splendor Studios (3:16)